Listening to your Money and Financial Wellness

I’ve heard it said that you can tell a lot about a person by what they do with their wallet. In our life, I would say that’s pretty accurate.   A few years ago if someone went through our checkbook and debit card receipts, there is would be a pretty consistent pattern tracking what we value most highly.  Repetitive expenditures after essentials are traveling to hang out with our adult “kids”, charitable stuff and keeping my wife’s horticultural degree in bloom by regular visits to the local nursery.

After 2008, although our values didn’t change, it seemed time to be more intentional with our money.  While we didn’t want economic fear to dictate our lives the reality was, things were different. Both as a family guy and professionally, as a financial educator, I found myself wanting to reassess the foundations of my core money beliefs.

This led to researching and compiling four different tools to look at several personal financial indicators. And since collectively, the data really felt like a good reading of our financial vital signs, we started calling the suite of tools, “Money Pulse”.  Descriptions follow:

• The Personal Financial Wellness Scale – Wanting to gauge our current level of financial stress we found this simple eight question survey authored by Dr. E Thomas Garman, a Virginia Tech professor.  The resulting composite score also benchmarks our results against national averages.
• Risk Tolerance Assessment – most of us have done have taken one of these but we wanted to find one that was not associated with any financial provider.  We found one that was sort of fun to take and yet had a fairly deep scientific approach. It was developed by another Virginia Tech finance professor, Dr. Ruth Lytton at Virginia Tech and Dr. John Grable at Kansas State University.
• Essential Spending – We use Quicken but it still can get complicated to track where our money is going. So we built a simplified spreadsheet that only provided two categories of expenditures designations …Essentials and Non Essentials.  We wanted to find out how little we could live on if need be and where we could save on non-essentials.  Hmm, in which column does a latte’ belong?
• Dream Survey – With all this hunkering down talk is there do we have to give up our financial dreams? Good question but in the process of trying to answer it, we found out our money dreams were not very well defined.  So we came up with a few questions that prompted our thinking about a hoped for future …and chart a better course to reach our destination.

Going through the Money Pulse process required digging a bit deeper into our money beliefs and practices, but given that financial issues seem to weave into our lives on a daily basis, it felt right to better understand the story our money was telling us.